Aloha,
I am pleased to present my online course for couples, Love over Logistics. This title was inspired by my clients who often feel that their relationship has turned into a mere set of tasks and logistics, making them feel like roommates. I came to the realization that many couples lack purpose in their relationship, which is why I created this course. Its objective is to assist couples in being more purposeful with their time together, enabling them to prioritize love and connection over errands and logistics.
Investing in this course can lead to almost immediate positive changes in your relationship. Just dedicating time to focus on your relationship can make a significant impact. The course will assist in creating more positive connections, improving conflict resolution skills, and providing clarity on your relationship goals.
For more than 10 years, I have been providing assistance to couples in my private practice. I now aim to share my extensive knowledge with a broader audience. This course is ideal for couples who wish to take a proactive approach to their relationship or have noticed indications of disconnection.
This course is grounded on the research conducted by Drs. John and Julie Gottman and The Gottman Institute. In the videos provided, I showcase their research, interventions, and effective tools that you can employ to enhance your relationship. The modules revolve around The Sound Relationship House, which is the model utilized in The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy. I attribute the research mentioned throughout the course to The Gottman Institute. I examine each level in-depth, providing a thorough analysis of the various components to empower you to fortify your marriage.
Discover how to prioritize your love for your partner over the demands of daily life.
This course teaches the fundamental elements of building a relationship that aligns with your personal goals. You will also learn how to communicate effectively with your partner, fostering active listening and validation. Find out how to better understand your partner without sacrificing your own needs, feelings, or desires. Although relationships require effort, it can also be enjoyable. This course provides a fun and productive way to work on your marriage. Marriage is undoubtedly challenging, but work does not have to be unpleasant. Personally, I take pleasure in working on my marriage with my husband, even when we disagree. Our efforts feel deliberate and gratifying, and I can teach you how to achieve the same results in your marriage.
What is Marriage with Intention?
When you finally find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and commit to them, it's a thrilling experience. We often spend a lot of time discussing and searching for that special someone, and when we finally find them, we have high expectations for our future together. Unfortunately, these expectations and dreams are often not communicated effectively and don't match up with our reality. We end up living in the present without really knowing how to live within it, as we are better at planning, investing, and saving for the future. As a result, we struggle to live intentionally, including in our relationships.
In this course, I will discuss how to build a strong and intentional relationship. Rather than being a chore, maintaining this kind of relationship is actually enjoyable. By starting on this path, you can avoid disappointment and hurt resulting from unspoken expectations. This course provides valuable lessons on how to handle conflicts in a way that strengthens your connection, and offers ideas to keep your marriage fun and lighthearted. I encourage you to embark on this journey with your partner, and determine how you can use the information, education, and tools to create a more intentional and fulfilling relationship.
Bottom line it for me, Beth
My ultimate aim for couples who purchase this course is to guide them in building a relationship that is founded on mindfulness and purposeful decision-making, while practicing effective and considerate communication on a daily basis. It is important to note that my intention is not to mold every relationship into a carbon copy of another. Rather, my goal is for you to feel empowered to create a relationship that is customized to your needs, and one that brings you a sense of fulfillment and significance. You will be equipped with research-backed tools from this course, which you can utilize to create a relationship that is tailored to your needs, and one that brings you the most success, happiness, and safety.
What you get:
7 Course modules
7 lessons in each module
49 downloadable worksheets
49 Video lessons
49 mini-written lectures
Lifetime access to the course
A relationship plan, completed by you as you work your way through the course.
The course is comprised of seven comprehensive modules, each carefully crafted to encompass seven lessons that will guide you through the entire learning process. You will be able to download an impressive collection of 49 worksheets and gain access to 49 video lessons and mini-written lectures, all designed to ensure a well-rounded understanding of the course material. Moreover, you will benefit from lifetime access to the course, allowing you to learn at your own pace. As you progress through the modules, you will have the opportunity to complete a relationship plan, providing you with an invaluable tool to apply the knowledge you have gained in real-world scenarios.
Course Curriculum
- Appreciation; the thing we ALL need more of. (14:25)
- It's not what they said, it's how they said it. (12:28)
- Ask me out (15:22)
- Create a positive mental attitude towards your partner. (13:53)
- Affection for the sake of affection. (12:19)
- Energy, effort and intention are secret ingredients. (15:10)
- Intentionally maintaining the dating level. (10:17)
- Fondess and Admiration worksheets
- Working on our relationship through bids. (16:08)
- The ways you can respond to those bids. (17:55)
- Mindless turning away and technology. (7:28)
- Remove the distractions to create time (12:40)
- Less bidding begets less turning towards. (17:21)
- Energy, effort and intention, yep those words again. (18:42)
- Bid with intention and respond with purpose. (9:15)
- The 5 to 1 positive to negative ratio. (15:21)
- Emotional bank account (9:50)
- The problem with neutrality (14:52)
- Time to create a new schema (12:54)
- Giving the benefit of the doubt. (13:16)
- The story in my head is... (13:25)
- How to create a intentionally positive relationship. (11:27)
- Positive Perspective Exercsies
- Learn to complain without blame. (21:47)
- Turn towards the vulnerability of the complaint. (18:59)
- Ask questions - listen to understand vs listen to respond (15:45)
- Bid by asking for a time out (18:57)
- Getting from gridlock to compromise (16:09)
- The invitation to a conversation (12:22)
- Vision and goal for how to engage in conflict. (8:48)
- Conflict Exercises
- Here we are, fighting over sugar cereal again... (12:40)
- We just want to grow together:) (10:50)
- We have the same goals, just different paths. (10:36)
- Placing value on spending time with and creating space for one another. (14:48)
- A purposeful relationship is... (14:08)
- How to create relationship rituals. (12:39)
- Vision and goal for shared meaning system. (10:33)
- Shared Meaning System Exercises
- What are your life dreams (why women stop focusing on them) (13:53)
- What blocks you from going after your dreams? (15:30)
- Do you and your partner's dreams align? (16:53)
- There are two dreams and one lifetime, what do we do? (14:45)
- Team work makes the dream work (12:32)
- Living the dream. Doing what you are doing while you are doing it. (21:32)
- Vision and goal for Making life dreams come true. (13:34)
- Life Dreams Exercises